9 Early Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse You Should Not Ignore

Do you suspect that your husband or wife is cheating on you?  If you think that your spouse is cheating, you may be looking for confirmation. This is probably a wrong assumption and they have just been busy as of late. Before you take steps to start spying on your spouse using catch a cheater app or before you decide to hire the services of a costly private investigator, read the signs of a cheating spouse below to see if your spouse may truly be cheating on you. Here is how to catch a cheater

9 Signs of a cheating spouse an emotional affair

1. A Change in Physical Appearance

change in appearance

Do you notice a recent and unusual change in appearance of your spouse? Men and women who cheat often want to impress or entice the individual they are having inappropriate relations with.  When doing so, they often change or improve their appearance.  If your spouse starts paying more attention to their weight or buys new clothes, they may be having an affair. It could also be in form of having a new haircut or hairstyle out of the blue. This scenario is called self-grooming and it’s often to attract the opposite sex. Mostly seen in an unfaithful husband.


2. Little or No Communication


Has your love live been all fun, chatting and full of gist? Not until recently you spend most times talking with your spouse and discussing about work. Has the late night conversations and great communication stops all of a sudden. This is a sign he or she is tired of the relationship and is probably cheating on you. If your spouse has recently stopped talking to you or distanced themselves from you at home, there is a good chance that they may be cheating on you.  This distance and lack of communication is as a result of them trying not to make the mistake of talking about there affair or they may already be discussing their problems with someone else.


3. You Don’t Know There Where about


He probably told you he will be working late but you went to his work place and he already left. In a serious relationship you should always know your partners location, especially late at night or for long periods of time.  If you do not know, chances are your spouse is with his/her lover.  When they arrive home, they better have a good reason for being late or not letting you know where they were. If they don’t have a tangible reason as to why they came in late then something is fishy.


4. They Are Always Out with Friends

out with friends

This isn’t a very serious sign of a cheater but it might also be point to take note of. In fact, healthy relationships also depend on healthy outside friendships. With that said, be sure to use your best judgment.  Look for the appearance of new friends or an increased amount of time.  Has your husband or wife gone from spending one night a week with friends to three or more? This was how i discovered my wife cheated on me.

More warning signs of a cheating spouse…..

They Suddenly Start Working Late

always working late

Working late could be as a result of trying to earn more money and might not be a sign of cheating. He or she probably took up extra jobs to buy you a gift for your upcoming birthday or valentines day. With that said, be on the lookout for changes and use your best judgment.  Has your husband or wife all of a sudden started working late?  In terms of using your best judgment, know what careers often call for late nights, such as lawyers, doctors, and so forth.

Warning Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating

Hearing the Phrase “We are Just Friends”

just friends

Have you noticed your spouse now hangs out with someone of the opposite sex? The “just friends,” phrase is a very big sign of a cheater.  As with all other friendships, it is important to use your best judgment.  If the friend of the opposite sex and are they are a newly acquired friend?  If so, something may be up. The more time your spouse spends with them the farther they will be from you.


7 They Accuse You of Cheating

accuse you of cheating

This can also be referred to as “guilty conscience” in a simpler term. In today’s society, cheating is a major concern.  If your spouse accuses you of cheating, have you been displaying behavior that may lead them to that conclusion?  If you haven’t, there is a good chance that they are accusing you of cheating to make themselves feel less guilty. This is one of the rare signs of a cheating spouse you should consider.


8 They Avoid Sexual Relationship

signs of a cheating spouse


Has your sexual relationship dropped from regular to irregular or probably zero.  If so, there is a good chance that your spouse is cheating on you.  Men and women who get sex elsewhere don’t always need to have it again when they return home. The one thing that keeps a relationship going is sex and once this stops something has gone wrong.


9 A Bad Feeling

bad feeling

Bad feelings are not something that should be easily dismissed.  If you have reason to believe that your husband or wife is cheating, they may be.  If you do not want to be in a relationship with a cheater, it is important for you to follow your heart.  These steps may involve hiring a private investigator or spying using apps for cheaters.

Feel free to add any other signs of a cheating spouse you feel i did not include.

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